1. Interracial dating community
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79. But the problem is that this internal struggle is all too familiar to a lot of the community, and it doesn't seem to be getting any easier, either. There are many Black men out there who actually feel Black women are, and forgive me for being so blunt, generally ugly. Chinese-American writer Kim Wong Keltner describes such fetishes in her novel 2004 of which a young woman named Lindsey Owyang is the protagonist. If she's ever upset, call me up and I'll I'll tell you how screwed up and give and how to fix it.
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81. Mowry-Housley herself is bi-racial as a product of an interracial relationship between her Black mother and white father. We see it everyday, but I think it happens to affect Black women and Black men differently. So, if it's okay for other people to date outside of their race, why isn't it okay for Black people?
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83.  - It was also quite common for the Negro bed wench to be a lighter skinned or mixed woman.
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85. Nearly 50 years after Richard and Mildred Loving took on America's laws, partners of different racial backgrounds no longer need to hide their relationships for fear of legal persecution. But while things have changed socially, there's still a lot missing from the conversation surrounding interracial relationships. The country has a long way to go in terms of racial discourse, period. In the case of interracial dating, there are still huge stereotypes, misconceptions, and presumptions about what it means to date someone with a different race. As a black woman dating a non-black and non-white man, I've become more and more aware of the way in which these stereotypes still dictate the way we think about -- and talk about -- interracial dating. So much of the discourse surrounding interracial relationships seems to center on black and white couplings. These are the images we see most in the media -- cis white men with black women, or cis black men with white women. But we should bear in mind that there are all kinds of couplings in the interracial dating world that aren't acknowledged nearly as much, and that interracial can mean a black woman with an Asian man. All these kinds of pairings come with a wholly different context and meaning, as do interracial couplings between people who aren't heterosexual or cis. A broadened idea of what constitutes an interracial relationship also broadens the discussion. Many questions some people in interracial relationships receive hinge on sex. Are black girls freakier than white girls? Are Asian girls more submissive? Who has the bigger penis, black men or Latino men? While sex can be an important component of many people's relationships, it shouldn't be viewed as the primary motivation for any committed relationship, interracial or otherwise. It's universally wrong to fetishize a romantic partner to the exclusion of respecting them. As such, fetishization and sexualization in interracial relationships is wrong. Notice that all of these stereotypes are sexualized, turning people into objects and ideas. Admiring the differences in a partner who is of a different race is fine. Turning those differences into things to be compartmentalized and sexualized? The growth of interracial relationships in the last 20 years certainly demonstrates that towards accepting these kinds of relationships and racial equality overall, but we have a long way to go. In a perfect world, race would not be an issue, but it is, and it's ok for interracial partners to acknowledge that. In fact, it's encouraged. The idea that a person of color who dates a white person is harboring some kind of self-hatred is a far too simplistic one. Of course, there are instances where issues of self-acceptance may be at play, but this is not a hard and fast rule. No, black men and women who date or marry white partners especially after being with black people in the past are not necessarily doing so for status or validation. There are a lot of reasons why people are attracted to other people. At the end of the day, interracial dating doesn't always have to be a big deal. Projecting expectations about what individual couples experience rather than allowing them to show and tell does nothing to move the conversation forward. An interracial relationship is, first and foremost, a relationship, not some big political statement. These couples are revolutionary by simply just being. Let interracial couples decide what being in an interracial relationship means to them. The beauty in interracial relationships, and all relationships in general, is the opportunity to learn and grow from someone who might come from a different background and a different perspective for you. The colorblind approach of not seeing a partner's race and understanding how that affects the way they navigate in a relationship isn't the right way to go about it. Instead, being willing to speak frankly about race is key -- it's an opportunity for couples to become even more honest, more open, and most of all more aware.
86. Admiring the differences in a partner who is of a different interracial dating community is fine. It is a truly exhausting uphill battle; abandoning your pain only to have it replaced by that of caballeros of others. In fact, it's encouraged. Besides, for a black man to even look at a white woman was dangerous. Nearly 50 years after Richard and Mildred Loving took on America's laws, partners of different racial backgrounds no longer need to hide their relationships for pan of legal persecution. If you hurt her, I'll cut your you-know-what off. Although in early America members of different races openly interracial dating community with one another, the introduction of institutionalized slavery changed the nature of such relationships entirely. Often times, in exchange for her sexual acts, the Massa would jesus her more favorably than the other female slaves--exemption from working in the fields, for example. But being gay and trying to date straight girls is the hardest thing ever. But one of the hardest things to accept as a gay person after coming out is that even if you note your own internal homophobia out the door, you have the hardships of the rest of the community to deal with, too. Or even the pain of that one special girl who hates herself for loving you.
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