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Ready for Conversational-Confidence On-Demand? - This is a perfect teasing conversation starter. Don't stop there i. We are surrounded by online dating sites and weird but highly effective dating apps. A couple of years ago you were frowned at when you said that you met your girlfriend on an online dating site. Today this is the most normal thing in the world. Today people are rather shocked when you tell them that you met your girlfriend without the help of modern technology. There are millions of attractive single women who hope to find their knight in shining armor on one of many online dating websites. The only problem is that the high number of women who are looking for the right partner attracts an even higher number of men who dream about being that perfect partner. Therefore, the completion is simply too high. Because I wanted to know how many messages a hot girl gets on an online dating profile I recently made the test and set up a fake profile with a sexy picture of a half-naked girl. I received over a dozen messages in the first couple of minutes. This will show you what I mean. You are definitely not the only one who wants her but with the following tips you are the one who gets her. Step 1: The Perfect Subject Line How do you start a conversation online? Okay, it usually starts with setting up your profile, adding a professional photo and writing some interesting stuff about yourself, but I simply assume that you have already done that. You and you write her. Saying the right things to her is important but there is one thing that she will see even before she reads your message. The first thing a woman sees when you send her a message on an online dating site is the subject line. Ignoring this tiny detail would be a huge mistake. Be funny, be playful and make her want to open your message. Even though the following subject lines sound completely ridiculous they actually worked with a great success rate when I used them: 10 Reasons Why You Should Open this Message You are beautiful but why are you so shy? I am not a prince but I am charming Step 2: Forget About the Standard Message What do most guys write in their first message they send to a girl online? A lot of them use the same message for every girl they write to. The message they tend to use looks like this: Hey, How are you? You are really beautiful and I just wanted to say hi. Opening a word document, writing down a line that she has already heard a million times before and hoping that you are one of the twenty guys who wrote the same crap who she will actually reply to is not the best way to start a conversation online. Do yourself a favor and forget about the standard message. This is like throwing a tomato on the wall and hoping that it sticks. Giving a girl an honest compliment is great but in the online world you have to be more creative than in real life. A girl who you approach with a direct compliment on the street will be flattered and excited when you tell her that she looks beautiful, because nearly no man has the balls to approach her. In the online world things are a little bit different. Men are a lot less afraid of writing to women than they are of talking to them in real life. As a result of that the average girl on an online dating site gets a lot of compliments. Women who are actively searching for a partner online have heard those lines a million times. If you want that she replies it is time for something new. Look at her profile picture and give her a compliment that you can only give her and not to any other girl. In case she has blue eyes, blond hair, a red top and a friendly smile you can use all those elements to design your perfect compliment. 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