1. Why its that theres so many professionals women single
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79. So, what did this mean? After the students left, I asked Urry if she was as flabbergasted as I was. The facts and figures I relate are bleak. I was tired of dressing one way to be taken seriously as a scientist while dressing another to feel feminine.
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81. When will we walk past this blame culture bullshniz? I still remember when this piece of research hit my desk, and I leaned forward a little bit in my chair to read its seemingly feminist ink. They maybe need to rethink that to seek a partner who is supportive, rather than competitive.
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83. Why more women choose not to marry - Let western women rot in their own shit.
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85. His expertise lies in the field of market research and he applies his scientific skills to educate women with all they need to know about men. After looking it over for about fifteen minutes, Beth returned the report to my desk and told me I was a male chauvinist. I was taken aback for a moment. I was fond of Beth and trying to help her, so after I recovered, I asked her what made her think that. I had to admit she had a point. My interviews with single men had shown there were men who would not commit. Beth was also right when she said that if I could help women identify which men were more likely to commit, I would be performing a real service. As a reward for her insight, I put her in charge of the project. Right My researchers approached this project the same way we had others. First, Beth reviewed the literature and research we had on file. With this in mind, I reviewed our interviews with men and women who were planning to marry and videos of two focus groups we had run with single men. We then broadened the study by surveying and then running focus groups of single men who at that time had no intention of getting married. At first, we had young single men do the interviews, but so many of the interviewees gave macho answers that we doubted their reliability. In fact, we threw out the entire study and started again. The second time we tried teams composed of men and women, but that produced mainly politically correct answers, which we also questioned. Finally, we had men in their sixties ask the questions, and that solved the problem. The responses they elicited were generally straightforward. The single men apparently did not feel an obligation to give these interviewers macho or politically correct answers. Is he old enough to marry? This survey uncovered some interesting facts. The first was that there is an age when a man is ready to marry-the Age of Commitment. But this window of opportunity stays open only for four to five years, and then the chances a man will marry start to decline. Until men reach 37, they remain very good prospects. At this point, many men become confirmed bachelors. Still, there is no one-to-one correlation. For example, when a man goes to law school, which takes three additional years, he usually starts considering marriage around age 27 or 28. The single men we interviewed explained that when they get out of school and get a job and start making money, new possibilities open to them. For the first time, a majority of them have some independence. All of a sudden, they have a nice car and an apartment and an income. Many look at time spent as a carefree bachelor as a rite of passage. If a woman is seriously trying to find a husband, she should date men who have reached the age of commitment. Even among men who are positively inclined toward marriage and are from identical educational and socioeconomic backgrounds, 20 percent will reach the age of commitment a year or more before our estimates, while another 20 percent will only consider marriage as a real option two to four years later. This is usually an arrangement agreed to by the man but devised by the woman. Signing off on the scene When we conducted a focus group with 12 men who had just proposed to women, we learned that men were far more likely to marry when they got tired of the singles scene. Our original intent was to determine how men at different ages reacted to single women they met at social gatherings. We started by asking the men about their lives before they met their future wives. How often and whom had they dated, where had they met the women, had they gone to singles places and, if so, how often? The first thing that struck us was that about a third of them said that for six months to two years before they met their brides-to-be, they were not dating or going to singles places as often as they had been just a few years earlier. They had not stopped dating. Picking up women was no longer their main reason for going out. They told us the singles scene was not as much fun as it used to be. Four of them used one phrase or the other, and ten of twelve men in our focus group said they felt the same way: The singles scene had lost some of its appeal. Many men reluctantly admitted that for more than a year, they had felt uncomfortable in the singles world where they had been hanging out for the past five years. The singles world for professionals obviously is an older and more sophisticated crowd than that for men whose formal education ended in high school, but eventually men from both groups had the same experience. Three young men who had graduated from the same high school were in one focus group made up of men who were about to marry. One was a plumber, one worked repairing computers, and the third was a store manager. Each said he had begun to feel uncomfortable in his favorite singles place about two years earlier. For two of them, their singles place was a bar and pool hall where they and their single friends hung out and met women. The third man was a very active member of a large Baptist church. For him, the singles scene was church meetings and church singles functions. Interestingly, he and the fellows who frequented bars and pool halls made the same comment. One said that the singles bar he used to visit was filled with teenyboppers, and he felt out of place. They had simply gotten too old for the crowd. It surprised us when they reported feelings identical to those of the younger high-school-educated men. The places the professional single men went drew an older crowd. Among the professionals, the youngest women were college graduates and probably at least 22. Professional men-unlike the younger men who had only completed high school-were perfectly at ease in their favorite singles places well into their thirties. Still, 30 percent of the single men with a postgraduate education said that as they approached thirty, they began to feel they no longer fit into their singles scene. There were two notable exceptions to the age guidelines: men who were balding or heavy. A 24-year-old man who was almost completely bald explained that he had felt uncomfortable in the singles scene after he had approached a young woman in a singles bar and asked if he could buy her a drink. Her response was to tell him, loud enough for everyone in the bar to hear, that it would be a good idea if he went home and kissed his wife and played with his kids. When he protested, she became sarcastic. He could see he was losing the argument not only with her but with the entire bar. He walked out and never went back. It is not how old they are that makes men uncomfortable, it is how old they feel, or how old others make them feel. An attorney, he told us he had been going to a restaurant for three years on Friday nights. It was a hangout for attorneys, judges, and others who worked in the court system. Joe explained that the restaurant was usually full, and on Friday nights the bar area was crowded with young singles, while most of those seated at tables were older and married. It was a series of small incidents over a period of time that turned them off-usually comments made by one or more young women that made them realize they no longer fit into the place they had frequented for years. One of the focus groups composed of men about to marry said that if a woman wants to know whether a man is ready to get married, she should ask him how much he enjoys the singles scene. Once men reach age 47 to 50 without marrying, the chances they will marry do not disappear, but they drop dramatically. Men who have been married before are open to remarry much later in life. They have entirely different relationships with women. If a woman in her forties or older who has never been married is dating a man who has never been married, the chance of him marrying is still good. But at that time in her life, most eligible men are either widowed or divorced, and their chances of marrying again are substantially higher than those of men of the same age who have never married. In other words, if a woman meets two men in their late forties, one who has been married and the other a lifelong bachelor, she should choose the one who has been married before. A stringer is a man who strings women along. He likes having a woman, sleeping with a woman, eating with a woman, possibly sharing his life with a woman without ever making a real commitment. He often tells women, up front, he never intends to marry, so if and when he decides he wants to cut out, she has no reason to complain. If you think you may be involved with a stringer, establish a deadline. Pay no attention to his excuses. In fact, he is likely to tell you anything that will get you to stick around without his needing to make a commitment. The chances a stringer will marry are very slim; he is simply not the marrying kind. Earlier I mentioned those men who went with one woman for a time, then shortly thereafter went out and married another. This was the pattern, in fact, that initiated our research. So we questioned the couples in which the man had gone with one woman for years and was marrying another. The women who married these men insisted they commit early in the relationship. We ran across at least fifty men we could identify as stringers. They can be very dangerous. I estimate each one is responsible for at least two women remaining single. They are destructive because they con women into wasting their time during the years when they are most attractive and most likely to get a proposal. They stay with women, live with women, promise them marriage, and string them on and on indefinitely. There is one surefire way to identify these men-they are usually repeat offenders. If he does not set a firm date, be on your guard. Biological clocks We spoke to 121 men in their forties who were marrying for the first time. Their reason for marrying was different than that of the younger men we interviewed. Many of these older men were eager to marry because their biological clock was running. Men forty-two and older who were about to marry looked forward to having children, and they almost unanimously pictured themselves as fathers of sons. They want to be young enough when their sons come along to teach them all the things fathers traditionally teach their sons-to ride a bicycle, to fish, to play ball, and so forth. Unpolished jewels We talked to dozens of men in their late thirties and early forties who had given up on the idea of marrying. Most lacked one of three things-looks, height, or social skills. They had been rejected so often that they had despaired of ever finding a woman who would love them or even put up with them. Many had been treated cruelly by women. If you signal your own interest, you may find a nice guy who would love to settle down. Only after being convinced you like him will he be able to summon the courage to ask you for a date. If you can help a man overcome these feelings, you may find a real diamond in the rough. One thing impressed me: The men who were not married were just as nice, just as intelligent, just as hardworking as the men who were. Bad investments There is a possible drawback to dating a man aged 40 or older. Many men at that age begin to look at women and marriage as a poor financial investment. Today, many of the women whom these men think are after their money earn far more than they do. Such men are hardly ever going to be the marrying kind. All couples need to discuss money, especially when either partner has assets and responsibilities. This, of course, affects women as well. We found that many single men and women in their late thirties and forties were products of divorce. The difference between older children of divorce and other confirmed bachelors is their reason for not being married. They believe in living together, because in their minds, once people marry, the romance ends. If you talk with them about marriage, they tend to be very open about what they believe. Often the women had to drag them to the altar. None of this is to suggest that if you meet a man whose parents were divorced, you should immediately cross him off your list. Socioeconomic factors Another crucial factor that influences the chances of a couple marrying is socioeconomic mix. Date men who will fit in with your friends and business associates. Opposites may attract, but men and women from similar backgrounds marry. So bear in mind that a man is much more likely to marry you if he is from the same socioeconomic background as you are. When religion and politics mix Other factors that contribute to the likelihood of a relationship leading to marriage are religious beliefs and political persuasion. Each of these has a relative value. The same goes for a woman with strong ties to a religion; her fiancé may need to accept her faith. Couples coming out of marriage license bureaus confirmed these findings. A number of them told us that before they met their intended, they had had a serious relationship in which religious differences caused one party to break it off. Your chances of marrying him are much greater than your chances of marrying the other man. The importance of belief systems cannot be underestimated, and this is also demonstrated in political areas. Of course, there are exceptions. One of the most public party-crossing couples is conservative pundit Mary Matalin and Democratic campaign manager James Carville, who worked for opposite sides when Democrat Bill Clinton challenged GOP incumbent George H. Bush for the presidency. In the focus group we put together to investigate political alignments in marriage, we discovered that many married couples were politically divided. We know more women vote Democratic than men, and more men vote Republican than women. Differences of opinions on core values such as abortion, capital punishment, or even disciplining children can divide a couple. People with similar beliefs and values tend to have similar outlooks on life and are usually more compatible. Living at home Men who live at home with their parents are less likely to marry than men who have their own places. This is more significant in some communities than in others. Nevertheless, a man who lives alone is more likely to marry than one who lives with his parents. We also discovered that men who have never lived away from home are less likely to marry than men who have. Following the pack Another important question a woman should ask a man before getting serious is whether any of his male friends have married in the last year or so. More than 60 percent of the men we questioned coming out of marriage license bureaus told us they had a friend who had married within the last year. After we asked men in singles bars if any of their friends had recently married, and if they themselves were considering getting married, we saw a reason for this correlation. Seeing their friends marrying had clearly caused a change in their thinking. Those who said none of their male friends was married were two to three times as likely to tell our researchers they were not ready to marry. Of those who had seen even a few male friends get married recently, a majority said if they met the right woman, they might think seriously about getting married. Keeping it in the family A follow-the-leader factor can also be seen in families. Single men who had unmarried older siblings-particularly if the siblings were still living at home and past the prime marrying age-were less likely to find a spouse than men whose older siblings were married, or those men who had no older siblings. Men usually will tell you what they think. Date only the marrying kind To dramatically increase your chances of marrying you must seek out and date the marrying kind. After 43, it diminishes even more. They want to be young enough to teach their sons to fish and play ball, and to do the male-bonding thing. Men whose parents divorced when they were young are often gun-shy about marrying. Copyright © 2003 by John T. Published bt Time-Warner Books. 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86. So I emphasize again, head east before the changes occur and stay out of the big cities. It was a series of small incidents over a period of time that turned them off-usually comments made by one or more young women that made them pan they no longer fit into the place they had frequented for years. You can of courseunderstandthat there were many menwho wanted to date heror even a relation. However, when they actually have to interact with such a woman, something glad happens In the study of 105 men, researchers laid out several scenarios. Women have a right to high standards. But it took me such a long time. The opposite holds true for women, and the disparity is particularly striking among corporate ultra-achievers. My u is that this information will generate workplace policies that recognize the huge costs to businesses of losing highly educated women when they start their families. I see the same in your 2d paragraph, about richer countries. Thanks for your comment.
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